Sarah's Blog

 This past Sunday I met with a group of ladies like me and they were awesome.  We just sat at a local trans friendly place and chatted for hours did even realize how much time had passed until I needed to go pick up my wife's medication.  Everyone was super sweet, friendly and welcoming, just getting to know one another and make plans to hang out more often as girls and not only that I am learning about new trans friendly places to go, places that don't show up on a Google search.   Some are re-starting their journey some are like me, lifers, but we all have similar stories about growing up and what it was like to either pilfer mothers pantyhose, slips, dresses and skirts or maybe it was a sister (older sister)  or some other influence but no matter how it happened, here we are.  As I have said in previous posts, is it nature or is it nurture that compels us (crossdresser/trans) to do what we do.  For me, I think I was pre-disposed to being femme ...

 How hard can it be to meet like minded individuals that live in the same city as you but because of various factors they have no inclination of meeting.  I am refering to crossdersser and trans individuals.  They say they want to meet others but when the offer is made there is silence.  Me, I would jump at the chance to meet and hang out with other trans/CD's because they more than any understand what it is like to have to hide or be something they are not.   My wife, a cis-gender heterosexual woman, is very understanding and supportive but sometimes she does not understand fully the issues we face whether it be personal, at home or out in the world.  She supports and encourages me to grow everyday, she buys things for me although she doesn't have to but it would be nice to just have someone to talk to or just go out as girls.  Am I asking to much?  Maybe I am but I am also comfortable in my own skin now especially more so when I go out en f...

 As of June 2, 2024 I have been out as a crossdresser/transxxx in public and at work.  People have largely accepted this aspect of my personality I think partly because they realize I am still the same person no matter what I wear or how I dress.  Plus I am on the JEDI (Justice, Equity, Diversity and Inclusion) committee and hold a modicum amount of respect from my fellow committee members partly because of some of the ideas or suggestions that I have.  Some are within the realm of possibility and some not so much but my input seems to be valued.  Somehow, mysteriously, I was volunteered to be on the book club committee, I'm not complaining.   As we grow as a committee we plan reaching out and making our presence known to all staff and employees that work for the company with staff training and development to educate them about culture, gender and identity - I'm excited.  One of the goals of me being on the committee and coming is to be a role mod...